After much practice, this is a phrase I like to say to myself a lot – as creatures of habit we often forget we have choice in our thinking, our actions and decisions. The unconscious pull of our usual patterns of thinking or behaving cause us to do what we always do and hence we end up with the same old results.
To get different results – do things differently – flexibility is key.
It’s one of my favourite things to do when I’m out and about, one that’s very heart warming when shared with an appreciating stranger. Giving and receiving a smile changes both people. May be the person receiving a smile will go on to smile at someone else, it has a positive impact on the people watching too – and we are always being watched. Sometimes I wonder how long a chain of smiles could be, may be my smile could come all the way round and back to me ; )
I’ve been interested in personal development ever since the age of eleven when I first came across Norman Vincent Peale’s book ‘The Power of Positive Thinking’, which had been misfiled in the children’s section of the local library. I was fascinated by the stories of people who had achieved important goals through visualization.
Today I work as an NLP Therapist, seeing clients in private practice and also deliver a range of personal development courses, specializing in self esteem and confidence building, which I believe is fundamental to success in any sphere of life.